Thirty Lessons Learned

  1. Trust God. Allah is the Best of Planners.

  2. Not everyone has the same heart as you.

  3. Being optimistic is hard. Do it anyway.

  4. Tell the people you love that you love them whenever and wherever you can. You never know what life has in store.

  5. Your health is one of your greatest investments. Spend the time and money it takes to take care of it.

  6. The relationship you have with yourself is the longest one you'll ever have. Love yourself and be kind to yourself.

  7. Be generous, even if it's in the smallest way.

  8. Make time for the people you care about, even when it's inconvenient.

  9. Travel. It expands your mind and heart in ways you never could have imagined.

  10. Be like a plant: stay hydrated and soak up the sun.

  11. Whatever mood you're in, pray. If you're sad, you'll feel better. If you're happy, it amplifies that joy.

  12. Being the eldest daughter is hard, and it has become a core part of my personality. But I wouldn't have it any other way.

  13. Work is the least interesting thing about someone. Hobbies are cool. Have a few you can rotate throughout your life.

  14. If you wait for others, you'll be waiting for the rest of your life. You only have one life. Don't wait for the perfect time or circumstance because there will never be one.

  15. When you love, give it your all. Love is a risk worth taking.

  16. Read fiction and nonfiction. It teaches empathy and helps you learn new things.

  17. Journal. It helps you take stock of the day and reminds you to be grateful.

  18. Get out of your comfort zone, whether it's trying a new cuisine or moving to a new city where you know no one.

  19. Nobody is perfect, including me. But your friends, family, and partner should hold you accountable and help you become better.

  20. We have been gifted a beautiful planet that fulfills so many of our needs. It's our duty to take care of it.

  21. You can't rely on one person to meet all of your needs.

  22. Never settle in your relationships. Find people who are willing to work through any problem with you.

  23. Your character says more about you than words ever will. 

  24. Prioritize strength over being skinny. Your future self will thank you.

  25. This world is a beautiful lie. The afterlife is what truly matters.

  26. The way you practice your faith is entirely yours. No one can judge you.

  27. Know when to detach. Know when to manifest.

  28. A friend to all is a friend to none. Loyalty is sacred.

  29. Listen to your body, mind, and heart. Notice how they change throughout the years. The people who truly love you will love every version of you.

  30. Vulnerability and sensitivity are strengths, not weaknesses.

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